Three is a Charm

I find people fascinating. Whether or not this is because I do and don't understand them, I cannot say.

Three is a charm.
If you can follow my senseless logic, I will lead you on an adventure.
"Adventures are funny things..."
I'll lead for a while then give you the chance to step up.
Now, as I lead on this adventure of some sort, I ask you this... When will it be good enough? When will life be good enough? What is good enough?
When I think deeply on the subject of "good enough" I cannot find any material thing that is good enough. For something to be considered "good" there should be a standard by which it is compared to "being good" in the first place. Now, if one decides to fill themselves up with Earthly desires, that person is subject to perishable happiness.
Perishable.
I find myself surprising myself in the adjectives I use.
Perishable.
A focus word in the service I went to at Saddleback Church yesterday afternoon.
My brain pulls at me to a different path in writing now. Again, "adventures are funny things. They always begin with the unexpected..."

Do you have pets that you are attatched to?
I happen to have 7 cats. Seven, wonderful, inspiring, unique cats. Thoughts, not necessarily beliefs, that come to mind are as follows.
Do animals have the power to take on certain characteristics of our personalities? I sometimes feel like each of my cats inhabits a different part of my personality. Each of my cats are so similar that they are drastically different. Or maybe they are so drastically different that they are similar.

I find the term soul mate overrated.
I believe God has someone planned to be your "perfect match", for lack of a better term. What then happens if your match chooses someone else? Was that encrypted into the pathway of your love story? Does each decision we make have the power to alter our entire course? Does having a crush on someone alter your heart? Do you learn from them and use it for good? Good. Since God is all knowing, he knows which path you will choose, or have already chosen. In that frame of thinking, if you choose "wrong", whose path are you messing with? Are you altering just yours, or everyones? Is there really the Butterfly Effect? Does my decision to date this guy instead of the other change the world? I believe it does. Maybe not hugely, but it does infact change the world. It changes your world. So when you are the pilot of your life, and you go choose this guy instead of the next, does he alter himself to become your soul mate? Does the couple itself alter themselves to fit the other person perfectly? Or is there someone out there for you that you do not have to alter yourself for. Don't get me wrong, change can be good. Change can also be bad. If the person is altering you to something your OK with, are you as happy as you were before? Are those alterings "good enough"? Were you "good enough" in the first place?

Who changes who?
Does God change us, or are we changing us?
Is God allowing the change?
What is the change?

Well, our adventure has made a pitstop.
It will continue later on, unless you wish to continue it for yourself.
By all means, go for it.

Love,
Cecelia Rose Melody